But men are simply attracted to women with good physical appearance and feminine attributes. I agree that women are, in general, less interested in warfare. I'm sorry for being late, and miss you Lucy.. Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on April 30, 2014: I note that activist Germaine Greer in her weekly newspaper article said it all just in the headline 'Women are now worse off than 50 years ago!' Women cannot compete against men when they use violence. Weve been through all this before. Yes, as a man I would exclude myself from being a politician or Prime Minister, but I do not exclude myself in being able to think and say what is in my mind. The idea of an all female government is ridiculous. They were filled with fit men capable of organizing into tactical units for the purpose of killing. It's been speculated that the elites imposed the matriarchal system on the serf class to weaken their social organization and more easily subjugate them. That was the identity of Spartan Masculinity, Spartan women supported their men by giving them strength and pride through saying that. ". While in the cold war between the USA and USSR, from the early 1950s to the 1980s, men come close to committing global suicide through nuclear warfare. In human females this instinct has to be stronger than most other mammals because the human child is far more helpless than any other mammal, and takes far longer to mature. All patrairchal goverments teach men to be tough, ruthless and macho. And in our competitive patriarchal world is seems that the most competitive and aggressive people get to the top. You just declare your judgement with total certainty and that's it. Differences between what men and women? Materialism gives you the opportunity to always have the latest things. This may be all right for animals to behave like this but can be a disaster when human males have the same instincts. In Islamic countries they have a 'honour' system where is a women disobeys a man she dishonours him, and so to restore his 'honour' he has to kill her. Don't put different words in my mouth now. it should be obvious that we need to try and see if the other sex can do a better job in doing this.. You didn't approve my last response. You insist this is true,". It's not like she stripped that gold from the bodies of the slain. The Mosuo women are China's last surviving matriarchy. Patriarchal societies are traditionally male-dominated, while matriarchal societies are female-dominated. There is no evidence of a truly matriarchal civilization. Man has reaped what he has sown. Joint Family System The members of joint family system are related on the basis of marriage as well as blood relation. The two systems have a major difference in their ideas about nature. One thing I might not have mentioned yet is that it is also nearly always men who stop those atrocities. If a man and a women go to a businessman with a new invention, which one do you think will get more respect? It is a technique in medical science that uses the radio waves and magnetic field to generate reports in images about the organs and tissues in the body. Really? matrilineal society, also called matriliny, group adhering to a kinship system in which ancestral descent is traced through maternal instead of paternal lines (the latter being termed patrilineage or patriliny). The problem is that men do a really terrible job in ruling our world and it should be obvious to everyone, that they are totally incapable of doing this. Who invented the atom bomb? I certainly wouldn't call the African-American culture a matriarchy. It's entirely the result of how a voting democracy works. The governance of a social group, community, and state is patriarchy. It was she who done all the research into DNA, but then one of her male assistants, secretly gave her data, to Crick and Watson who published it before she did. And he is definately not saying that women are not responsible for their violence, I would whole-heartedly accept resonsiblity for such actions as I always have; those who avoid there responsibilities, the consequences eventially catch up to them and they have to end up facing them anyway so any rational woman knows that there is no use in avoiding one responsibilities! War was apart of their culture as it was for Greek and Roman men at the time, they all went to war and prided themselves in it, it was their identity as men and it was supported. Again, this is the same for either gender. If things get worse then people might look for something different but the chances are they will look to Facism or bring back communism or perhaps go to extreme religion. The fact is that when men rule our world, we have a world of violence, war and injustice. The whole of history shows us so clearly that men do a really terrible job in ruling our world. Yes, i am a man, and as a man I am ashamed of my sex for the irrisponsible way we rule our world. In simple words, this system is for the mothers of a family. Monopoly companies enjoy a supernormal profit. Like this post. We've been through that and I've explained my position before. I'm sure you can find a way to blame that lack of maternal instinct on men, though. "You say that warfare comes from competing cultures and I agree with this, but who are the people competing with each other? I believe these differences are the result of the different challenges, risks, costs and benefits men and women had to overcome in order to pass on genes. The role models given to boys in comics, books and films are violent heros who wins the day by being better at violence than the villian. If I fine you, it will economically disadvantage the children. We can see this behavior in sport. Also, there's absolutely no reason to believe women start any less wars than men if they have most of the political power. Do you honestly think that telling the men who rule our world that they are being sexist is going to change anything? Men used acid, and taught women to use the same weapons against them. This gives rise to the question why. We see this from a very early age when little boys like to play with toy guns, cars and planes, while little girls like to play with dolls and prams. Moreover, most men who seek to invent or innovate are not "given" the tools, money, education and encouragement to do this. Women leaders demonstrate an inclusive, team-building leadership style of problem solving and decision making. I can also explain that men on average are physically bigger and stronger than women, is that another sexist remark? The only way to think about such a thing is logically, which half of you are obviously not doing. For men, it is youth and beauty, for women it is power, status and material wealth. I could go on, I could fill a whole book up with the names of despotic male rulers, murders, serial killers and acts of genocide. And was all such invention worth it? We seem to accept violence and war as 'normal'. Men are capable of committing the most horrendous crimes, rape,murder, torture and genicide. Now you may not see the advantages of matriarchy because you claim men and women are the same. Here too, what are you talking about. Disadvantage: Endless Red Tape. Are you merely here to fight and shove your views down people's throats simply because you damn well feel like it? Yes, men may not want violence but they are aggressive and competitive with each other and this gets completely out of hand, where we do end up with violence. In many cultures, and particularly indigenous societies, the . There is some conflicting evidence of matriarchal tribes. And I already know your next attempt to respond which will be to say that women cant possibly do any worse given how bad men did. According to Campaigner Uzma Noorami "In most cases the husbands are attacking the women because of the power structure that exists within our society; a very patriarchal system where women are treated as commodities." "I think the problem is this feminist dogma that says men and women are the same. E-unit: Common Breeding Systems for Livestock Production Page 3 www.MyCAERT.com It is said if all men stood up for their rights, who would stop us? If women were as violent and aggressive as men we would have in our history great Amazon armies setting out to conquer the world. As for war and genocide, very few women get involved in this. But today, through democracy, it is now possible for a political party to gain power without the use of violence, so it would be possible for women to set up a Matriarchal political party or even take over existing political parties, Now, many feminists say that one sex shouldn't rule our world and men and women should share power equally. She was the first female mathematician, she was also an astronomer, and a NeoPlatonist philosopher, she was a woman of science. In other words, the father administers the house. Women will never be as competitive and aggressive as men. For a long time, men have dominated the better portion of society. But as i have also pointed out the it the type of people in power that is far more important than the system they use. All the matriarchal societies of the Neolithic age was destroyed by violent conquest. Search my user name when you have a revelation that women are actual persons capable of personal agency and sovereignty, and who are fully capable of being held responsible for their own actions. This is not an easy problem to overcome. This is what terrifies me about people like you. And for what purpose? You are no better than the most radical feminist, and no better than the most traditional neo-con. I also wonder how it is that you don't see yourself as ultimately patriarchal. Don't you ever question this? Women did not just sit on their ass and do absolutely nothing while leaving all the inventions and responsibilities to men, I have never in all my early ages of life believed that and I absolutely never will. Patriarchy, on the other hand, is a social system, wherein males enjoy all the powers, control, and authority, and women are given subordinate roles. I can assure you that I don't have many resources and those in which I do are limited, I am without a job, and I alone am my only damn motivator and encourager, nothing has ever been given to me! By your logic, this statement would also be true; There have been great periods of peace during history. So it means, because of mens powerful competitive instincts we will always have wars and very unfair societies, while men continue to rule our world. but I do not exclude myself in being able to think and say what is in my mind.. A minority of women in politics is not evidence that they have a harder time. I think the problem is this feminist dogma that says men and women are the same. All the team members can share their ideas and distribute . I've had to suffer and bust my ass off to prove myself worthy of every little damn thing I have and it has never been enough for anyone in my life other than my damn self! Before we had democracy, it would have been impossible for women to rule any country, because men ruled through violence and intimidation, and women would find it hard to compete with men in a world of violence, It is true we have had, in the past, Queens like Elizabeth 1 of England and Catherine the Great of Russia, but they had to still rule governments, dominated by men with male values. While awful people have ruled the world, clearly a lot of great people have done so too. ". They engage other individuals to do the dying on their behalf. Motherhood is a damn proud thing for every living creature on this earth, not every mother protects her offspring in the same way and not every male protects and defends, or is even there for his. What percentage? The gap between rich and poor is growing all the time, we still have wars, and even democracy is failing because our elected politicians are so easy corrupted. And I'm sorry to have to tell you that one reason the gap between the rich and poor is growing all the time is because of government interference in the free market. Advantages (Pros / Positives / Benefits) of Monopoly Market. And further, a significant body of evidence in evolutionary theory ties the psychology of women's violence and competition TO their maternal instinct. But then you cannot know with any degree of certainty that those changes would have any benefit whatsoever. You, a man, decides that men are naturally not suited to be in decision making positions. The authority belongs to a male head followed by the distant members of the same family tree. matriarchy: [noun] a family, group, or state governed by a matriarch. A matriarchal government will not only have to take control of the government, but also the media, the military, the business and financial worlds. It goes like this: Judge: "Ma'am, you maliciously lied to the police and had your husband forcibly removed from his home and excluded from his children's lives. In the past the people who got into power were the most successful warlords. The point is that for the average person in the street they want to be rule by sensible and caring people. Men in power have been involved in these wars. I have no idea why I seem to be the only person saying this. If you think that women don't compete then you're gravely mistaken. Men do not like the way they rule our world and do attempt to do better. As well as this, black men in particular are the most over represented men in jails. Anyone who thinks women are inherently dovish should read up on Margaret Thatcher, Indira Ghandi and Elisabeth Bathory. If the world is really so bad, then go and live by yourself but don't sit here enjoying the accomplishments of civilization every day while hating on them. Don't you even feel a little bit silly that you're a man yourself when you say these things? They even have failed to create equality as well. You can only provide anecdotal evidence for what you say, and completely ignore the overwhelming evidence of history. So it is about time we allow women to rule instead and se. I am deeply astonished by your lack of respect for tribal peoples, would you say the same thing about my Native American Indian people? They do this with rape, in places like Pakistan, if a woman was to complain she was raped, she is the one more likely to be sent to jail, and not the rapist. If you were successful on the battle field then you were more likely to be king. It is crazy to say men and women are the same when it is so clear that they are not the same. What is a pity is that Lucy83 and me both want the same thing, and that is the empowerment of women. Here's another example of your blind faith ruining any hope for honest discussion: I suppose you think the allies should not have declared war on nazi Germany. Matrilocal Residence: Perpetrating your own violence entails accepting enormous risks. But throughout recorded history the one thing that hasnt been tried and that is Matriarchy. Low stock levels, particularly for in-measure materials. If poverty can be elimination, then crime for both black and white men will be greatly reduced. A business partnership may be one of the paths you've considered to help grow your business or to answer your current business needs. If I exempt your husband from alimony and child support, it will harm the children. Rob Sparrow which you might want to read: "war is a political relationship between states and has nothing to do with the individual psychology of the individuals involved Its the political systems that drive the actions of those in power rather than the other way around in order to gain political power, women have to accommodate themselves to the needs of these systems as much as men do". Many men are very aware that warfare is total insanity, but men cannot help themselves. Matriarchy is essentially a woman-oriented society, wherein all the leadership and authority rest in the hands of women. The company can invest this profit to fund high capital research projects to bring more innovative products to the market. Also mentally it makes the average man far more aggressive than the average woman. I'd say "god help us all" but what's the point? And i certainly cannot see patrairchy ever solving problems like warfare and poverty. What I have a problem with is sexism and hate speech - which is what your article is full of. Women have had equal access to education for the last half century. The big problem with this argument is that it is not true, men and women can never be the same, because women have children and men dont. It is, in fact, driven in large part by women, because women drive 80% of consumer spending. That's not what we were talking about. At present female politicians have to join patriarchal political parties and prove themselves to be macho men to be taken seriously. The public will also have to be re-educated to want to vote for geniune caring and nuturing women. In other words, women who try to get ahead in any patriarchal institution, has to act and behave like competitive and ruthless men, because if she was to show her caring and maternal nature, she would be condemned as being weak and sentimental. This was harmful to your children. Criticism is not the problem. Women can indeed invent things. It signifies a system of governance administered by women. This is why in democracy they have to have fiercely competing political parties to make it work. So if we recognize that men on the whole make dreadful rulers, then it makes sense to see if women can do a better job. Related: The desi dad syndrome that every middle-class kid can relate to. I find it incredible that you question the statement, "war is total insanity". It can be initiated at will and ended in the same manner. Even if it were true, it is still sexism. Things can only change when we have matriarchal political parties where women are free to be themselves and not have men tell them how to behave. Do you do so for the sake of argument, that you may gain some satisfaction in asserting your bias as well as your social and political views where it naturally doesn't belong nor is wanted? If you talk about the best system of the two, egalitarianism supersedes the two. It is this strong competitive instinct that trips men up every time. matriarchy, hypothetical social system in which the mother or a female elder has absolute authority over the family group; by extension, one or more women (as in a council) exert a similar level of authority over the community as a whole. You just will not see the fallacy in the conclusion: "if most of xyz are men, therefore most men are xyz". If you want your procurement process to be as efficient as possible, it's best to invest in a P2P solution that provides integration with an ERP system. When a woman does the same, we do not hold her accountable in the same way. And it is that type of technology that we desperately need! It harnesses the potential productivity and protectiveness of males. You cannot blame women for wars, because women do not rule our world. Again if we look at the animal kingdom, we find every spring animals like stags, bull and rams fighting each other for dominance and access to females. As for saying that if women take over they will be the puppets of powerful men. But just telling me that I'm brainwashed and then repeating your initial statements is not an argument. Men may have invented weapons, but women *still* don't tend to invent much at all. Yes im finding it amazing that nothing has been done about this - that more people are not wanting this change! Few women get involved in this insanity because they have a maternal instinct. Mind you to be fair, science does have a history of male scientists doing the same thing to each other. In the process of helping the children they will within a generation, also help everyone else in the country they rule, When matriarchy is discussed, some people mention Margaret Thatcher and point out they she wasnt a very caring leader, so it seems all women are judged by her actions, but we wish to explain that a female leader of a patriarchal political party, is not a Matriarchal government. If you want women to rule the world, fine. Supporters of. The practice of polyandry is very rare these days; it is thought to be practiced among the Bahama of Africa, Marquesan Islanders of Polynesia and The Tibetans. Where the whole world lived in fear of a Third World War. The only reason people ascribe it to maleness is because they want to illustrated supposed female inferiority or they want excuses not to have to adopt it themselves and want an easy backdoor in through methods like women only parties or affirmative action. You may be able to impress your friends. Disadvantages Of An MRI Scan. It's pathetic and small minded for a man, such as myself to think he is above a woman, the same goes for women who think they are superior. That they have had no effect on the men in their lives, and played no part in maintaining and enforcing gender roles and perpetuating them on the next generation. Can be a lengthy and noisy procedure. 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